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the “RAPE” window

21 Mar 2013   by Bonnie   in Featured, News   No Comments »
The fact that we talk about rape every 3 to 6 months is problematic, my friends. But here we are again, as someone has said or done something stupid enough to get us in an uproar,... Read More

GET YOUR WRISTBANDS HERE!

16 May 2012   by Bonnie   in Featured   No Comments »
GET YOUR WRISTBANDS HERE! Ok fine, get there here: http://www.thatswhatshedidntsay.com/?page_id=271 …because I don’t know how to put the “pay now” button in this post. Buy your... Read More

Why “The Help” is About More than Race

06 Sep 2011   by Bonnie   in News, Uncategorized   No Comments »
“The Help” continues to hold a place at the top of the box office. But are we fully aware of why this movie is so poignant? A friend of mine commented on the... Read More

What She Didn’t Say: Kae

10 Apr 2011   by Bonnie   in Uncategorized, what she didn't say   No Comments »
What She Didn't Say: Kae I was nine when I started writing. When I walled up into myself and couldn’t let anyone in. My only escape from the shame and pain within me was my writing. Every time I... Read More

What She Didn’t Say: Carole

26 Mar 2011   by Bonnie   in Uncategorized, what she didn't say   No Comments »
I really am not sure how to begin here, a lifetime of people judging me for what I couldn’t control kind of took its toll on me and makes me scared to say anything. I was... Read More

What She Didn’t Say: Tracy

26 Mar 2011   by Bonnie   in Uncategorized, what she didn't say   1 Comment »
What She Didn't Say: Tracy I have been a sexual person for as long as I can remember…probably because I was born in ’81 and grew up worshiping Madonna! Anyway, I have always been confident and... Read More

What She Didn’t Say: Didi

23 Mar 2011   by Bonnie   in Uncategorized, what she didn't say   2 Comments »
What She Didn't Say: Didi Dear world, I am writing to you this post to set my demons free, to capture back myself worth and to walk into the calling God has given me. As I begin to type my heart is beating... Read More

Joe Biden compares GOP to Rape Apologists (from Feministing.com)

22 Mar 2011   by Bonnie   in News   1 Comment »
Joe Biden compares GOP to Rape Apologists (from Feministing.com) From Feministing.com JOE BIDEN COMPARES GOP TO RAPE APOLOGISTS by Vanessa Valenti   The vice president, known for speaking his mind and at times putting his foot in his... Read More

What She Didn’t Say: Sarah Ann

22 Mar 2011   by Bonnie   in Uncategorized, what she didn't say   4 Comments »
What She Didn't Say: Sarah Ann This incident of sexual violence was not the first– not by a long shot. My father, who was a surgeon, began molesting me at age three, raping me at six. This rape was just one... Read More

What She Didn’t Say: Sarah

21 Mar 2011   by Bonnie   in Uncategorized, what she didn't say   1 Comment »
What She Didn't Say: Sarah I was attending college at the time, staying in the dorm on campus. It was the spring semester of my freshman year. I was 18 years old.   That night my roommate was begging... Read More
Why “The Help” is About More than Race

Why “The Help” is About More than Race

“The Help” continues to hold a place at the top of the box office. But are we fully aware of why this movie is...

What She Didn’t Say: Kae

What She Didn’t Say: Kae

I was nine when I started writing. When I walled up into myself and couldn’t let anyone in. My only escape from the...

What She Didn’t Say: Carole

What She Didn’t Say: Carole

I really am not sure how to begin here, a lifetime of people judging me for what I couldn’t control kind of took its...

What She Didn’t Say: Tracy

What She Didn’t Say: Tracy

I have been a sexual person for as long as I can remember…probably because I was born in ’81 and grew up...

What She Didn’t Say: Didi

What She Didn’t Say: Didi

Dear world, I am writing to you this post to set my demons free, to capture back myself worth and to walk into the calling...

What She Didn’t Say: Sarah Ann

What She Didn’t Say: Sarah Ann

This incident of sexual violence was not the first– not by a long shot. My father, who was a surgeon, began molesting me...

What She Didn’t Say: Sarah

What She Didn’t Say: Sarah

I was attending college at the time, staying in the dorm on campus. It was the spring semester of my freshman year. I was 18...

What She Didn’t Say: Bonnie

What She Didn’t Say: Bonnie

Here we go- let me try to put a 16 year long story into 1000 words or less in a way that is approachable, but not too...

What She Didn’t Say: Donna

What She Didn’t Say: Donna

Nearly 11 years ago, I enlisted in the US Army.  While I was going through AIT (advanced individual training), I was...

What She Didn’t Say: Rachel Marie

What She Didn’t Say: Rachel Marie

  Ten Years Later I am the middle of 3 children. I have an older brother, who is 15 months older than me, and a sister...